I was given the formula for success. I strategized my plan, followed through, and was winning.
Then I realized I’d been playing the wrong game all along.
Somebody else’s game. Another’s rules for life and relationships.
I felt so ‘unseen’ in my marriage. After getting divorced, I realized the reason was because I wasn’t revealing my inner world to my husband. I’d unknowingly held so many beliefs about vulnerability, being allowed to be emotional or messy, and I’d also neglected my own inner world so completely that even I had not been able to truly ‘see’ myself. How could I possibly have shared with a lover aspects of me that remained dormant and unexplored?
After experiencing “success” as a workaholic, perfectionistic photographer, I retired for 3 years to reconnect with my radiance, my sexual essence, my inner child, and my wild nature.
I now live a bohemian lifestyle between Salt Lake City, Utah and Costa Rica - balancing single motherhood (of teenagers!), healing from religious sexual repression, studying authentic relating & tantra, dancing, dating, luxuriating in nature, and writing my first book (a memoir about my quest for divine, vibrant, fucking great sex).
My magic is holding a sacred space of vulnerability, truth, and growth; to explore the aspects of self who are longing to be expressed, witnessed, and integrated - through the mediums of conversation, intuitive bodywork, tantric breathwork and movement practices, film, photography, and writing.